As we move into 2025, I am sure we are all finding ourselves reflecting back on what we did and did not accomplish in the current year. Two critical horse injuries derailed any plans of riding, leaving me grappling with unexpected circumstances and a significant shift in my priorities. What I thought was going to be a normal year of horse showing and point chasing turned into chasing medical answers for an unknown injury to my horse, Seaside. At the same time, I was coming to grips with the decision that my older horse, Regardless, really needed to be retired after a second suspensory injury. This experience has profoundly impacted my approach to goal setting for 2025.
I’ve always been wary of resolutions. The statistics are grim: a staggering 98% of people not only abandon their resolutions by March but they actually forget what they were in the first place. This suggests a fundamental flaw in how we approach self-improvement. Instead of striving for drastic, often unrealistic changes, I believe a more sustainable approach focuses on defining our “mission” – the overarching purpose we want to achieve in the year ahead.
As you can imagine, my mission is not currently focused on time in the saddle. I am focusing instead on becoming the best horseperson and ensuring that my horses get the best care and treatment. So for any of you reading that are in the same boat, I feel you.

Your mission may be to prioritize showing and what level you are showing at. It may be to grow your skills in a new area. Or you may just be out there to have fun (which I wish I could have more of).
Once the mission is defined, the key lies in creating a structured plan. Break down the overall mission into smaller, manageable steps or goals. Consider the order of these steps, their importance, and the resources required for each. Documenting this plan is crucial. It provides a roadmap to track progress, celebrate milestones, and stay motivated, especially when faced with setbacks.
The journey itself is often more rewarding than the final destination. Focusing on the process, learning from challenges, and celebrating small victories fosters a sense of accomplishment and builds resilience.
While my circumstances may be unique, I believe this approach to goal setting can benefit any equestrian. By shifting our focus from arbitrary resolutions to a well-defined mission and a structured plan, we can increase our chances of success and find greater fulfillment in our pursuits.
I wish you all a year filled with joy and meaningful accomplishments.
Mary Alice’s passion for horses began around 1996 when she and her sister pleaded to attend pony camp after hearing all their friends talking about it at school. Beyond her equestrian pursuits, Mary Alice has a successful background in the finance industry. She has led marketing and communications teams for prominent broker-dealers and Registered Investment Advisors (RIAs). Mary Alice resides outside of Memphis, Tennessee, on her farm with her husband, John, along with their three horses, two dogs, two cats, and Taco – the mini donkey.